So women, we need to learn to leave the leftovers behind. Tomorrow is a new day. You can cook something fresh to eat.
Relationships can be hard. Especially when you've been deceived by the one you love, but if you decide to forgive him and take him back there is no reason to bring out the leftovers. Bringing up your lover's past screw ups, is a recipe for disaster. No one wants to be reminded of lowest points of their life.
There is no reason to bring up the time he cheated on you with Jessica back in the fourth grade. Women we tend to do this a lot during heated arguments. You remind him of everything he did to you in the past. From the time he cheated to the time he lied about liking your dry Salmon. Forgive and Forget people. I'm not saying to be naive, I'm just saying if you decide to take him back you're saying to him that you're willing to move on from this and start fresh. So there is no reason to dig deep in your fridge for that leftover plate of drama.
Keep all past issues in the past. Walking around with a plate full of leftovers will only add extra pounds to your relationship. And trust me, an overweight relationship will lead to a heart attack. I think I'm in the mood for some Salmon. Until next time bloggers...............
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I enjoyed reading this post. There's so much truth to everything you stated on here. But I can only speak for myself on this one. It's DAMN hard not to bring up the past especially when you are soooooo heated and all you want to do is to remind him of his past faults (lol). But on a more serious note, disagreements in relationships are natural and resolving them in a "fair" way is imperative to a thriving relationship. Not fighting fairly is indicative of a relationship that is not healthy. Let's face it, if we bring up the past it's a clear indicator that what happened in the past has not been forgotten. Live by the 3 F's.....forgive, forget and f'it :-). Thanks for the recipe Betty, looking forward to more.
ReplyDeleteI agree Shelly, sometimes it can be really hard not to bring up the past during a heated argument. Sometimes we have to take ourselves out of the situation and put ourselves in their shoes. If you were the one at fault, would you want to be reminded of it everyday?
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