There Are Too Many Chefs in This Kitchen

Having too many Chefs in the kitchen can ruin a dish. That is just way too many opinions on how the ingredients should be used. So I say when it comes to matters of the heart and your relationship, there should only be one Chef in the kitchen.

I know we usually find ourselves running to the ones we’re close to for relationship advice, but what we fail to realize is that every relationship is different. Every relationship has it’s own secret recipes. A recipe that works for one dish may not necessarily work for another. This is the same with relationships,

When it boils down to who should make the final decisions in your relationship. I say there should only be one chef in the kitchen. And that chef should be you. After all, you did contribute to half of the ingredients in your relationship and you should decide how those ingredients are used to prepare this dish. Absolutely no Carb counting tomorrow bloggers. Until next time…….

Is the Cooking TIMER set

Why are we so restricted in today's society. Everything we do is set on a timer. In relationships all of the restrictions should go out of the window. There is no reason to set the timer.

Go with the flow in 2009. Who cares if it's the first date. If you feel like locking lips with your potential suitor lean in and do it. If the feeling is right then it's right. Putting time limits on Chemistry can only cause you too loose a connection.

We're not preparing a turkey here people. You're in search for true love. Since when did we need a timer for love. It's a natural thing that happens on it's own accord. So everything leading up to it should be just as natural. When you feel it with someone I say go for it.

Throw that Fourth date kissing rule out the window , along with your Three month sex rule. Just go with the flow. Whatever happens, happens. You'll notice that when you let things happen naturally everything else falls into place.

We tend to try and control the process of every relationship we are in. We say to ourselves "ok it's been six month, why hasn't he said I Love YOU". Can someone please find me the book on love where it indicates that approximately 6 months within a relationship the guy has to confess his undying love for you. Seriously this is an outrage. We need to stop trying to set time limits on our relationship.

So I say let's all throw out our cooking timers. We're in search for love. And love needs no timer. If you let it flow naturally, you'll know when it is time. Until next time bloggers..............